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It You’re A Mother, Or Are Planning To Be

If your child says they feel a certain way, and they’re trying to explain to you how they feel. DO NOT dismiss them, judge them, tell them their wrong or ignore them. You’ll regret the decision, because you’ll end up losing them. They’ll hesitate to tell you anything again, to trust you again, or even associate with you again. It will be your fault, and you may never be able to reconcile. If you think they’re to stupid or ignorant to make a “clear, rational, and sane” decision or thought, take a step back and ask yourself. “is my child an idiot?” If the answer is yes, then ask yourself: “Is it my fault?” There will hopefully at least be a little voice in the back of your head saying “Most likely you *insert insult here*!”

Just listen to them, and let them no that you’re there for them and that you care. Try to hear them out, they may not crazy. Don’t give them reason to hate you…

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